I miss my hugs and kisses

I miss my hugs and kisses
I should get 12 each day

I miss my hugs and kisses
because you didn't stay

I miss my hugs and kisses
Even though there's someone new

I miss my hugs and kisses
because they're no longer YOU.

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made Sept. 10, 2010 while in the middle of watching Letters to Juliet. It made me feel emotional and I missed the hugs and kisses I used to have

Letting Go

I kinda admit LETTING GO is such a hard thing for me to do.  I like being comfortable in living with what I am used to like a habit, a solitude knowing, that everything is going to stay as they were though it's not always the case. All those that are alive and has rights, and brains are out of my control.  I know that everyone would sympathize with me and would do just the same if they can just stop everything from ceasing or leaving. A thought of something that would soon be out of our sight and company and control is just hard especially when one has envisioned a future with it, be he human, a pet or a state of life.  We always say that change is good but when it comes we are afraid to embrace it especially when we don't know what's in it for us or if we will be happy with it especially if it is not something that we want.

Parting ways and being left behind is always a sad thing. Rejection and loneliness would soon take its toll even to the strongest individual.

Something I just read that makes sense. It may or may not help one move on but the hope of being able to let go and be fine again is something each one of us would want. Hoping for it to help you as it has helped me.

Though simple, HOPE is something we could all use... I hope we all would be able to let go.

GIVE IT UP TO THE LORD! By T.. D. Jakes There are people who can walk away from you.. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk.Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The bible said that, they came out from usthat it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19] People leave you because they are not joined to you.  And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell yousomething.. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye.. It's not that  I'm hateful, it's that I'mfaithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!! If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to...... LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ....... LET IT GO!!! If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth...... LET IT GO!!! If someone has angered you. LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge.....  LET IT GO!!! If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction... .. LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents LET IT GO!!! If you!   u have a bad attitude....  LET IT GO!!! If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...... LET IT GO!!! If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him......... LET IT GO!!! If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship. .... LET IT GO!!! If you keep trying to help someone who won't even tryto help themselves.. .... LET IT GO!!! If you're feeling depressed and stressed ............ LET IT GO!!! If there is a particular situation that you are soused to handling yourself and God is saying 'take your hands off of it,'then you need to...... LET IT GO!!! 'The Battle is the LORD's!'