FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS

friends with benefits:

1. Two fairly close, or very close friends have the hots for one another. they do have some sort caring for one another, but it is not one of a romantic couple.a man and a woman who don't enjoy commitment like to fool around with one another because they find each other attractive.
2. This is another word for a Booty Call. Usually 1 person ends up getting hurt (the female) because her feelings become involved. Its rare for the man to get hurt because most men dont confuse feelings with sex like us women do. If you think you can accept this type of relationship thinking it will evolve into something more later, you are wrong! Expect alot of CLOSING TIME calls. That means the bar is closed and he didnt find anything better so he calls you for booty.
3. A safe relationship, that mimics a real partnership but is void or greatly laking jealousy and other such emotions that come with a serious relationship.
8. A physically involved relationship, where both partners enjoy some comforts of sitting on the fence between serious relationship and simple friendship.
9. Any realtionship that can only be catagorized as being between Friends and Partners, also refered to as More then friendsTwo people break up over complictaions of a serious relationship and decide to continue their relationship a step down, but not far enough as to have physical bounderies.
10. friends with benefits When men only want sex and don't want to commit to the woman they're having it with.

She's good enough to fuck, but not good enough to be my
girlfriend. Therefore, we are friends with benefits.

>> Some stuff i collected about FWB's way back June 10, 2005. Why was i interested in finding out what it really is? I don't really know, I can't really remember what I was thinking or what felt when I looked it up. All I know is that I've been into this kind of relationship.

Yep, most of it or the top reason for having it is because of SEX, the chemistry. The commitment, I don't really know what's the reason behind it but for me, the reason was not entirely on sex. I wasn't ready for the relationship because there was someone else I really love, and was hoping to finally fullfill or realize the 5years of loving the person. The formality of the BF-GF thing.

I'm not really stressing on the sex here, but the reason or something to say defend the dirty impression people will think once they know I've been into one. (i mean 'em it was more than one). Oh well, I've my reason, and that was what i stated above and aside from that, I was looking for the affection, the person (i mentioned above) couldn't give to me. I mean I was in love, and I was hoping (turned out to be false hopes) that "mag-KAMI". I refer to this person as the "LOVE OF MY LIFE" that's why I couldn't give in to the BF-GF relationship my FWB's asked of me.

Two of the FWB's I've had was just more on the sex, but one, flourished... It grew to something else, LOVE(?) Well it was, budding, starting love, if only I've realized it sooner, well, it would have made it to us. The other one, was just ALL FOR SEX. We just couldn't resist each other, as in the chemistry's way too strong too fight. Did it grew to something else? I don't really know, maybe its in the process but since I haven't been seeing the guy for some time, I couldn't really weigh if it made it to something else...

But see, the real benefit here, the real benefit that I saw was that there is SOMEONE you could run to. Someone you could tell EVERYTHING. Your feelings, the people you've been with or even tell bout your SO or someone you really really love (someone who means the world to you), or your crush, or someone you like... Because there really are some things you have to keep from your SO esp if its about someone else (you do get tempted or face it, your just human, your bound to be attracted to someone other than your SO, worse even have a relationship other than your SO) because you don't want to loose em or that you are afraid they'll retaliate, or that they'll hate you(believe me they will, only a chosen few wont and will forgive you). They will get hurt, they won't listen, you won't be able to really tell them the story behind it and it'll just lead to more confusion and stuff.

That's the real benefit behind it. You'll reveal your every all and you'll feel good and be thankful that they'll understand. BUT, then the problem starts there too. You'll then begin to admire your FWB for understanding, for listening and he'll admire you and realize that you're something so then you fall in love. Then you'll be beating around the bush (as to what i stated above) You then won't be able to tell this FWB everything because they'll get hurt, because you'll want em to love you or have a relationship with em. He'll then start telling you not to do this and stuff, not to see this person, that he should be the only person you'll see blah blah blah...

i don't really know how to end this, i just want to keep on talking but it'll just end up too long to read. So I'll leave you with this, If ever you want to be in a FWB situation, think about it, or don't think, just imagine what confusion you'll be in. Oh well, its your life and whatever will do for a person...

Im just sharing some views, and some tips.. A listening ear and a open mind works really good. The ears are made to listen, so do just that and don't let everything you hear come out your mouth. You'll never know and understand the real story unless you finish it, all sides of it...

Life, its just one of the many complications of life =)